summer 2011

summer 2011

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012
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Wednesday, April 30, 2025

oh the chicken!

 Here in central New York, beef has gotten expensive.  I prefer it, actually love a good steak, who doesn't? Ground beef is still affordable, as is chicken breast, and I buy the occasional package of pork chops.  The question is always what to make with the chicken (or ground beef.). 

Lately I've been on a street taco kick, just grill or pan fry or oven roast that chicken breast, slice it up, and serve it on warm corn tortillas with chopped white onion, cilantro, and fresh salsa.  I like lime juice on it too, and lots of salt and pepper.

We make chicken soups too, and stir fry, and chicken and rice bowls.  But tonight, I wanted something different.  I marinated the chicken breasts in lime juice, salt and pepper after trimming them and slicing them in half, and left them in this for a few hours.  Then I made up a mixture of:  two eggs, three tablespoons of flour, some water, and some seasonings...garlic, onion, salt, pepper, cajun spices.  I dried off the chicken pieces, sprinkled them with baking powder, just a pinch, then dipped them in the egg...then into a mix of seasoned bread crumbs with some cayenne, and onion, garlic, ect.  Onto the parchment covered baking sheet, with avocado oil....I flipped them and added more oil...then into the 425 degree oven to get nice an crispy...it smells heavenly in here.

I'll let you know how they are!  Okay, dinner is over, they were good!  But I suggest you just look up a recipe if you want more exactness, because I am anything but.  

Yesterday, Sonja and Charlotte Claire and Camille and I worked on the house across from Sam.  I painted trim and the bathroom door, the girls cut in and painted two bedrooms.  On those home makeover shows, it all gets done so fast.  In real life, you have to find the paint can opener and mix it up and wipe up the drips and drops and wash the brushes afterwards.  The hours fly by with not much to show for it.  We did, however, have fun.  I let them choose something to eat after, they decided on a few Domino's pizzas, something we rarely have.  I did have two small slices, felt I had worked hard, and did not want to ride all the way home in that car with three girls eating pizza and not have any, it smelled so wonderful.  It wasn't the greatest, but I enjoyed it.

Camille and I went to Activity Club, and only had a few girls there, then a few of the younger kids who came over to play a bit too.  We brought Little Things, which are Calico Critters and Lil Woodzees...houses and markets and a food truck and tons of critters and bunnies and accessories.  We put roll out paper taped to the table, so they could make sidewalks and roads...I made a pond and a park.  

This fine morning, after the pool, it was out and about.  Miss Char found a dress in TJ Maxx for Evelyn's wedding.  We also went into Old Navy, where I got a little pair of overall shorts for Rhys' upcoming fourth birthday.  My knee was screaming by the time I got into Sonja's car...so hard to bend it to get in...dang.

Then to the little Mennonite store.  The girls go subs there, and I got raspberry jam, bacon, hot dogs, and butter ($3.29 a pound!).

Home....ahh, home.  I did laundry, vacuumed, and mopped the floors.  I made the dinner and cleaned it all up.  Paul went to work on the house and I did not accompany this time, so I was here by my lonesome.

It's cold here, I went out on the deck in bare feet to bring in my hanging begonias, and my feet were so cold!  It's going down to 35 tonight!

Tomorrow Jonathan Robert is coming over for a visit, we're going to take some things to the thrift store.  Then Suze is coming on Friday...

My house is quiet.  Paul is back, the doggies are here, and Old Kitty is washing her paws on the arm of my chair.  Suri went to the vet last night and had her stitches removed from her tumor removal surgery.  She's turning 13 in May, that is old for a Labrador retriever.  If her cancer has spread, we won't be testing to find out.  No lung X-rays or scans, she's too old and wobbly for those things.  She is a happy, waggy girl though, so I hope the vet got all the cancer out and it didn't spread and that she can at least have a nice long summer with us.  

Today is Jonny's birthday.  He is married and doesn't live here anymore, so it was like a normal day.  I do have some presents for him for tomorrow though, and am thinking to take him to lunch.  

One thing is, when you get older you see more clearly how unimportant those huge-0 crises really are.  I'm almost 60 years old, and yes, at one time I had a bed wetter and I worried...and a thumb sucker, and one who didn't want to give up the pacifier, and a late potty trainer, and one who learned to read at four, then one who struggled at seven.  I had a child who cut all the tags out of her clothes because they were "itchy", and one who could not go out and get on the bus if her socks were crooked in her shoes.  

You think you have to figure everything out.  But you don't.  Sometimes you just have to go through the days.  You have to be patient, and gentle, because children are gifts!  But you don't always have to have answers, you just need to persevere...the long days and the long nights, but they're really speeding by and you don't realize it until woooooosh, where did the years go?  Now, I CAN find the hairbrush, and there's no hair to brush...the hampers are empty, and I look around for something to throw in the wash...the sink is empty, and there's no one here to finish up the cookies...

Ah well.  Have a good night.  :)



6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Della, I have been reading your blog for two or three years now and enjoy the stories and updates on your family. I had to comment today, tho, when you mentioned you had a child who cut all the tags out of her clothes because they were itchy. Glad to hear I wasn't alone! 😁 I still do it and I'm 56 lol. I also wanted to share I enjoy hearing about your kids and many grandkids as it rings a bell with me. My mom is one of 13 and I am the 29th of the original 29 grandkids. There are greats and great-greats now. We used to have fun family reunions with all those people but now it's hard to get everyone together.

Marla in Indiana

16 blessings'mom said...

Hi Marla! I bet you did have tons of fun with all those cousins! A lot of my kids had these sensory issues, and now that they're mostly grown up, they still have these preferences. Most of them have no tolerance for smacking or loud chewing, slurping!, loud noises, overly bright lights...not sure if it's how they were raised or if we're all a little bit on the spectrum?

American Housewife said...

Wet Oatmeal Kisses

"The baby is teething; the children are fighting. My husband just called and said to eat dinner without him."
Okay, one of these days you'll shout:
"Why don't you grow up and act your age!"
And they will.
Or "You guys get outside and find yourselves something to do... and don't slam the door!"
And they won't.

You'll straight up their rooms neat and tidy... bumper stickers discarded... spreads tucked and smooth... toys displayed on the shelves... hangers in the closet... animals caged, and you'll say out loud:
"Now I want it to stay that way."
And it will.

You'll prepare a perfect dinner with a salad that hasn't been picked to death and a cake with no finger traces in it
and you'll say, "Now there's a meal for company."
And you'll eat it alone.

You'll say, "I want complete privacy on the phone. No dancing around, no pantomimes, no demolition crews. Silence! Do you hear?" And you'll have it. No more plastic tablecloths stained with spaghetti, no more anxious nights under a vaporizer tent, no more dandelion bouquets, no more iron-on patches, knotted shoestrings, tight boots.

Imagine a lipstick with a point, no babysitter for New Year's Eve, washing clothes only once a week, no P.T.A. meetings, carpools, blaring radios, Christmas presents out of toothpicks and paste.
No more wet oatmeal kisses.
No more toothfairy, giggles in the dark, or knees to heal.

Only a voice crying, "Why don't you grow up?"
And the silence echoing, "I did."

Joybells said...

Ahhhh, thank you for the wise words about not having to figure everything out. To quote a favorite author of mine, regarding child rearing: "The firmness of faith and the warmth of love work wonders." So in the meantime, nobody panic, and let's make sure to hug our kids while we have them at home! :)

Joy from Salem

16 blessings'mom said...

This truly made me cry. Honestly, I don't understand when Empty Nesters are joyful. Sometimes the silence is deafening, and that last line is a killer...

16 blessings'mom said...

Joy, it goes by too fast. My little Jonny, all married up, 21 years old, "visited" me yesterday. As happy as I am for them, ouch, it was so quick, I didn't have time to prepare my soul for another empty bedroom...:)