as with all good things...

well, you know, it's time to pack up and head back to New York.  I'm not even going for a morning swim, my suit will get soaked again, and the pool cover is on.  So here I sit on the comfy couch with Lily-the-Lab, having some coffee from their nice machine, knowing I am leaving in a few hours and still have to go pack up my stuff.  To be fair, packing to go home is much easier, all the stuff is there, just put it in the suitcases.

Yesterday we went out and about. 

Just a pic from the car as we drove to a huge used bookstore over near Glendale.  The terrain here is so desolate, yet lovely.

I still get a kick out of the Batmobile, their Tesla.  Look at that blue sky, too!

We went to In-and-Out first, if you've ever had a double double, you'll know what I mean about YUM.  Then to the bookstore, I just wanted to buy all the childrens' books!  But, we'd have to get another suitcase.  

Home, and straight into the pool, ahhh.  I did not get sick of the pool.  We decided not to make the chicken pot pie, which was what was on the menu, it was too nice to get out and go in and cook.  So we went out to dinner.  I mean, what's better than getting out of the pool, getting into a nice dress, and going to a nice restaurant?  It had semi outdoor seating, and the weather was perfect for it.  I had a chicken dish with peppers and sausage, oh it was good.  

I missed Aaron this morning, he left for work.  He told Riley to tell me I'll just have to come back and visit again.  I will.  It is so hard to say goodbye.  

We have had a good time together of course, we caught up on some recent episodes of Jeopardy!, Jamie Ding has won 28 in a row now.  We also watched some COPS!, which is astounding (the drug use and loss of teeth and denial, it's so sad!), and some of the domestic violence honestly makes me cry.  A 17 year old boy returned home after running away, his new step-father was extremely strict with him, so he punched the step-dad.  He went bye-bye in the back of the police car, his mama was hysterical....so sad.  Jesus needs to come back.  

If that family had taken a collective deep breath, thought carefully about their words, prayed for patience, respected each other...well, it would be a different world.  In my eyes, that boy wanted love, steadiness, security, he wanted to know he was welcome home, and wanted.  I'm not dissing tough love, but that seems like an excuse for being harsh on the parents' end sometimes.  It has to be mixed with goodness.  

Well, I have to pack up soon, regretfully.  But as sad as I am to leave, I'm excited to get home.  Miss Camille's new glasses are in, and she's wanting to go pick them up, so I already have plans for tomorrow.  I don't like saying goodbye to these dogs, because they're getting older.  They've slowed down since I was here last year, Lily has gotten much more gray.  They used to be absolutely non-stop about wanting you to throw tennis balls, but not as much now.  Banjo has had health issues and is on meds for it, it's definitely slowed her down.  Pretzel, as I said before, is of indeterminate age, 12 at the youngest, maybe 16 or even older.  

Home though, to see Sunny and the girls, and the grandkids.  And ugh, the cool cloudy weather.  They had snow at home while I was here!  

You all have a good day, off I am to the dreaded trip across the country...
 

enjoying the brilliant sunshine again...

 ....it hasn't been all puppy dog tails and rainbows, but it's better.  I have taken a few pills this fine day, which I don't like doing, but sometimes keeping a headache at bay is smart.  You can't imagine how thankful I am that this is working.  I enjoyed that pool for almost four hours today.  I finally got out and changed into a sundress, and here I am in the AC, blogging on the comfy couch.

Moving in the water has been so nice, and the sun, ahhh.  Sunglasses are worth their weight in gold though, this blue sky isn't messing around.  It's some powerful sunshine.  In no particular order, some photos...

Pizza night!  The middle one was Thai pizza, can't remember the exact name, but it was SO good.  There was another one, too.  And shh, we did pretty much polish them off.

The three doggies, Banjo the spunky Border Collie, Aaron, Lilly-the-Lab, and on the floor, Pretzel.

They got Miss P from a shelter a few years ago, she was very sickly, but with some good vet care and lots of love, she is the best dog.  

Flowers in our room.

The desert in the back yard.

Last night's dinner:  roasted chicken and root veggies with spicy green beans.

You can see Banjo trying to help Aaron...

The dessert, a Boston Cream cake from scratch, and oh it was good with Tillamook French Vanilla ice cream.  

We watched a movie called Tetris last night, took place during the Cold War, and was quite interesting, based on a true story.  

It is 37 degrees back home.  We have tomorrow here, then head home on Wednesday.  I will admit to being a teeny bit homesick.  I miss Sunny and my comfy chair and the grandkids, and Char and Cam.  Not terribly, like I'm sobbing, ha, but I will be glad to see them.  Home, the place you like to get out of but always want to go back to.

Ah well, you all have a good day!  

a headache in paradise...

Yesterday started out with one of those low grade background headaches...the kind you gamble on, thinking you can get away with ignoring it and it'll go away.  That backfired as the headache stuck around and got worse.  I took a few Aleve, and went for another swim, tried to stay hydrated, but it started to roar.  I took some more meds, then took myself to bed.  If you have ever had migraines you know what I'm talking about when I say it was really rough.

The boys and Paul were having dinner...grilled Tomahawk steak, leeks, asparagus...I didn't even care, I only had a few handfuls of peanuts all day yesterday, and had zero interest in dinner.  I stayed in bed.  This fine morning, I got up, took a shower, and got back in bed.  I'm up now, had a coffee, and am feeling...wrung out.  Happy that the major pain has passed, but still rather blah.

The pool though, has been fantastic.  I think it has really helped me, and I'm hoping to get back in it today.  I am sorry that I don't have the energy to post pictures or write a phenomenal post, ha.  I'm still thankful to be here and I hope that headache doesn't even think about coming back for a visit.  :). 

You all have a good day!

after the long long winter...

 ...this is just incredible.  

Consider for a minute, how long and challenging this past winter was.  I had my surgery in November.  By Christmas I was still hobbling around on the walker, knee buckling willy nilly, couldn't go shopping, was making it out the door to PT, and to church on Sundays, with considerable effort.  (Thanks to Paul, who snow-blowed the front yard so I could get down the steps and into the car...he was so helpful!)

January brought sadness and grief as I lost my only sister.

I started going to the pool, still hobbling on a straight-leg, slow going.  

February was cold and snowy, and I continued going to the pool, and to PT.  

March was looking a bit better, made my trip to Norway, but still struggled so much with walking.  

Somewhere along the way, I learned to walk with the knee bent a bit, and it has gotten better.  I still don't have stamina, but I can get along.  Being out here has been better than I could have imagined.  Getting in the pool is wonderful, but we all know how knee replacement recovery goes:  forward, backward, hop hop hop.  I moved so much in that water today, now it feels like I have a cement block instead of a knee, with a tight band around it.  It doesn't hurt, but it's slow going.  

That is how it goes though.    I am so super thankful to be recovering and enjoying life.  

Aaron and I went over to the grocery store and I pretended this was our cart...the reduced baked goods.

Some French butter, too cute!

Riley cooking...

Last night's dinner was fresh golden and regular beets with pine nuts, chicken breast that was pounded, soaked in spices (30 different spices and seasonings went into the blender to make the rub), and balsamic Brussel sprouts.

Lunch by the pool:  smash burgers with homemade buns.

Banjo the Border Collie...

The Beef Wellington

It was so very yummy, with broccolini and riced mashed potatoes.  

I'm all comfy in my bed now, so tired and ready for sleep.  I had a good swim session today, did lots of exercises in that pool, walking and marching and walking backwards...so I'm a little hobbly tonight.  The water temp today was 93!  Can you even imagine?  

You all have a good night!  

oh here I am out in the desert!

 We had a nice traveling day yesterday, uneventful, just the way we like it.  I did request wheelchair assistance in the airport.  Going through security was a breeze, no one ahead of us at all, just walked through the scanner, and was told we were all set.  We got to board first, no one bumping or jostling me as I walked was so appreciated.  

Our layover was in Denver, I thought Chicago, so the airport wasn't as massive, but it was only an hour, giving us just enough time to deplane and re-board.  I watched "Marty Supreme" and the new Wicked movie, helps pass the time.  Turbulence always starts when I decided to use the bathroom.  I always use the bathroom on a flight, because once I waited and when we landed there were technical difficulties, then the nearest bathroom once we were freed was mobbed, and I seriously almost peed.  That is not fun.  Plus, I get so stiff just sitting, so I have to get up and move.  I hate the plane bathrooms though.  ugh.  There is someone somewhere laughing their heads off that they managed to make things so compact.  

We waited outside the airport for Riley to pick us up, enjoying the warmth!  He brought Banjo, their border collie, and she couldn't get close enough to me, we were just so happy to see each other.  

We went in their pool yesterday, it was easily in the 90's, felt like a hot tub.  It was amazing to get in there and move after a day of traveling.  Riley made dinner:  slow-braised beef with homemade pasta.  Dessert was from the French Laundry cookbook, called Coffee and Donuts...it was a something freeze, like a coffee ice cream with a meringue/cream mixture, served with freshly made (homemade) donuts made with European flour and imported fresh yeast.  Oh my goodness.  Apparently that was the dessert that gave that particular California restaurant it's Michelin rating.  (The one Gavin N., the Cal gov., went to during Covid lockdown, as in "Rules for me but not for thee")

Anyway.  We had a really nice time catching up, then ahh, bed time.  They don't skimp on their guest room, so after a shower, I was tucked into a comfy bed, and I slept so well!  After so many years of being tired, getting up in the night with baby after baby, I never take a good night's sleep for granted.  Sleeping well is my favorite, and I want to always acknowledge a good night and be thankful for it.  (I think that afternoon swim really helped!)

I told Riley I wanted a copy of his menu for the week, he loves to cook good food, and we love to eat it.  He made pizza dough this morning for Friday's pizza night, with that special flour and yeast.  They have a new pizza oven that makes it at a thousand degrees in one minute.  He's making a seasoned chicken breast with yellow beets this evening, and has a tenderloin in the 'fridge for Beef Wellington, which I have never had, but have heard of.  There are some amazing desserts coming too.  :)

(I think it's his love language!)

There was a leak in their in ground sprinkler system, so they dug it up and Paul helped get the pipes back together today.  They worked on it while it was still relatively cool this morning.  The skies are pure blue with a nice breeze, it's perfect.

We had a wonderful swim today, it is so nice here!  You all have a good evening!

the best coffee ever!

 Some people love to go to bed at night, just the thought of my snuggly bed, ahh, but getting up in the morning?  Well, of course I'm thankful for another day, but the coffee, just the thought of that first sip!  Pool mornings I get up and make just a black Americano, on the stronger side, so I don't add too much water, because shh, don't want to have to leave the pool to use the bathroom.  I have gone without it before too, when in a hurry, but mostly I have time for it.  But.  When I get back in the door from the pool, that After Pool Coffee is just the best.  This fine morning, I had a pour over, freshly ground Lavazza.  I like Starbucks Whole Bean Blonde Roast too, and of course the freshly roasted local coffee, but that gets pricey.  I order our everyday coffee from Amazon, the price fluctuates.  Sometimes the 2.2 pound bag of Lavazza whole beans is $22.99, sometimes it's around fifteen bucks.  

Anyway.  Add a splash or two of heavy cream and yummers.  

I hope my bathing suit dries in time to pack it for Phoenix.  I'm leaving a bit after six in the morning, and no, I have not packed yet.  I did go to the Dollar General after the pool this morning, and got some beef jerky and dill pickle peanuts for traveling snacks.  Also some hair clips and a new hairbrush.  

Now it's evening, almost time to shower and go to bed.  The day flew by!  I am mostly packed, but my suit   is still wet from the pool this morning, so I'll stick it in the suitcase in the morning.  I think I remembered everything.  We are checking a bag, so we have lots of room.  I packed two pairs of Birkenstocks, but I have decided to travel in the wool sneakers.  Yeah, wool to Arizona when it's 80, 90 degrees.  They are just so comfortable, and I can walk better in them.  I'm wearing a soft non-wrinkly sleeveless dress and a sweatshirt/jacket, because it's comfortable to travel in.   Because you all want to know what I decided to travel in.  I do have some really nice linen-y pants, and they don't look too bad on me, but sitting in them for extended time, not so nice.  

Anyway.  We had tacos for dinner, and I just went and cleaned up and washed the pans.  

You all have a good night...I'm bringing my laptop with me, if I remember it, so you can come to the desert with me!  :)

(Funny thing:  I looked at my ticket, and thought:  two hours and two hours, (layover in Chicago), not bad!  Camille said:  no way it only takes four hours to get there.  oops.  Time zones.  It's four hours then two hours.)

a spring Saturday at home...

 This fine morning, I had all sorts of ideas of what I was going to do.  I touched up my roots, shh.  That's always nice to get done.  Eight dollars every few months.  I'll go gray one of these days.  Ha, I don't actually FEEL sixty, in fact today when I remembered how old I am, I simply couldn't believe it.  Then I get up and walk, and oh creaky achy, yeah, it's making sense.

Anyway.  I decided to try on a few things I washed to pack for Arizona, and you wouldn't believe this:  several of my summer clothes have stains on them!  I don't know what from!  It's like brown spots from hanging in the closet all year.  I washed them, not seeing the stains, and now I don't think they'll come out!  I told Aaron I was going to have to go shopping when I get there.  

So I hemmed and hawed and thought about going to Old Navy today, but decided not to venture there on a Saturday, so much more traffic, more people, and I would have been by myself, what if I had to park a mile away?  So, I made cookies. 

I'm going to Emily's for lunch tomorrow, bringing some coffee, fruit, and now some cookies!  

Dinner:  I marinated some chicken breast in seasoning and vinegar, then grilled it, oh so good.  Charlotte Claire chopped onions and cilantro, and made some corn tortillas with lime juice.  I opened some black olives, got out the lime habanero sauce, and oh dear, so good!  I do like the new grill.  It was chilly on the deck though!  

So now it's evening, and baseball is on.  The girls are cuddled under blankets doing school work.  We just got the kitchen cleaned up, and I'm back in my comfy chair.  They're busy these days, and today they were working, and Paul was working on an apartment we need to get rented, and I was here all by my lonesome, and it hit me:  I have no friends.  Well, that's not really true, I have loads of friends.  But since I've been a mom to all these girls, they've been most of my social life, and they grow up, branch out, get their own lives, and, well.  No, this isn't actually accurate, as I am still very much a part of their lives.  It's just that today, all of them had things to do.  I wanted to go out and about, but with whom?  Oh, Cheryl, I miss you!  It's been a while since she was able to go bargain hunting with me.  But my heart aches when I think of the fun we used to have.  

Yes, I do have friends.  I am not feeling sorry for myself!  :)

And...now it is tomorrow!  You all have a good day!  (I'm going to lunch at Emily's with a whole bunch of dear friends!)