summer 2011

summer 2011

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012
family

Monday, July 6, 2026

what is better than July?

All of it:  bare feet, sundresses, swimming, those late sunsets, grilled chicken!  It goes by fast, so let's slow down and enjoy the heck out of it!

Yesterday, Paul and I, Char and Cam, got into the new truck and went to clean the apartment we still have to rent out.  I took out all the shelves and drawers and cleaned the refrigerator, Cam and Paul did the stove and oven, Cam scrubbed the sink and helped in the bathroom, Char did the tub, they cleaned windows and ceiling fan blades.  The floors still need sweeping and mopping, and new cabinet hardware installed.  These were clean tenants, so it's a relatively easy job.

We were hot and sweaty, so when Paul stopped to get gas, he got us fountain drinks from the gas station:  a Diet Coke on tap, mmmm.  

Home.  The girls went to one of the Finger Lakes for a swim with Emily, and I sat and put my feet up before going to visit my niece for a few minutes.   My sister had a Silver Cross doll pram, and Evelyn is going to keep it for her baby girl when she grows up, so I picked that up.  

When Emily and the girls got back from their hike/swim, Paul made smash burgers on the Blackstone grill.  I cut up cucumber and carrots, and made salt potatoes, as well as a few pieces of chicken in the air fryer for Miss Cam, who does not like burgers.  

Eating out on the deck, yup.  

This fine morning, I went to my swim class, then came home, and Kathryn was wondering if I would like to Aldi with her, of course I would!  I got to see Achilles, Rhys, Jamison, and Ellis.  I didn't need much, since I was just there a few days ago, but I did get a cauliflower crust pizza, some raisins for my salads, some red, yellow, orange peppers, and two packages of 85% beef that were priced at three dollars a pound, which is practically unheard of these days.  I also got three solar globe lights for the yard, $1.69 each, and a rug for in front of the sink:  89 cents.  (The sign on the shelf said $1.69, but it rang up 89 cents)

Home...ahh, home.  I put the solar lights in the yard, picked up the old rug from in front of the sink and put it in the wash with a few towels, swept the floor there, put down the new rug, put away the cold things, and dang, here I am in the comfy chair.  It's a warm enough day, humid, but bearable.  

My new Birkenstocks came.  They need to be broken in.  They fit, but are not comfortable yet.  I didn't dare wear them to Aldi today, need to walk around the house in fits and starts first.  They ARE lovely though...:).

Slate blue, leather, 3 buckles, what's not to love?

Speaking of "fits and starts", that's how I'm writing this post today.  I just finished vacuuming, and it was warm in here!  80 on the wall thermometer.  We turned on the mini split and closed the door, it'll cool down a bit soon.  Hot summer days are nice, but nicer from the beach or by the pool, not so nice when you're vacuuming.

Tomorrow I'm taking Anya and Elise shopping. We'll go to a few stores, then get lunch somewhere.  :).  Char and Cam are working, and I love going out and about with girls, I hope my granddaughters will enjoy the time with me too.  


This was ten years ago, not sure where Jonathan was, but Suzanne, Sonja, Kathryn, Evelyn, Camille, then me, and Miss Charlotte Claire in the back.  (Suze, Sonja, Kathryn, Ev are all married now...two are mamas, and Ev is due next month) (we know time flies!)

Dinner tonight is supposed to be grilled chicken, I flattened it with the meat mallet, and it's in Cornell sauce.  It does look like rain though. I can always cook it in the iron frying pan or air fryer.  

Ah well.  You all have a really good summer afternoon!
   

Saturday, July 4, 2026

happiest birthday, dear America!!!!

 Last evening we went to the beautiful pavillion of Emerson Park, on the north shore of Owasco Lake, one of the Finger Lakes in NY state.  We have been going there for the fourth of July celebration for years and years, and this is the first one without my sister.  When all of our kids were little, we would get Little Caesar's pizza, and Twizzlers.  Well, yesterday Emily came over, and Kathryn with Achilles and Rhys, and we rode together.  The 1812 Overture is Achilles favorite song, he was hoping the Syracuse Orchestra would play it!  

Who doesn't love the 1812 Overture?

Cheryl's oldest daughter Katie brought a selection of red, white, and blue candies, and little lollipop sticks...so my grandchildren and my sister's grandchildren got in line...

Margaret and Emily (Cheryl's husband Bill in the back)
Benjamin and little Declan
Achilles and Tennyson
Emily with Kaia, we did have a downpour before the concert started...but we stayed under the eaves, and then the sun came out...with a vengeance!  It was steamy hot!  What a beautiful summer night though, I had a sundress on and didn't even need a sweater when the sun set.  
Oscar and baby Kaia
Achilles and Rhys
Emily
Some of my sister's grandchildren...

Cam, Char, Kaia, Rhys
That's Elise and Declan getting candy from Katie...
Very hard to see, but a bunch of the grandkids together...I think I had a smile on my face the entire evening.  I told Margaret and Kathryn:  all these kids here are from Cheryl and I. (I teased that it would be them someday!)  wow.  It wasn't even nearly all of our grandchildren, I have 19 and she 29.  They weren't all there, but oh my goodness, it was a joy to see them.  My heart ached missing my sister, but I know she was looking down so fondly.  
Benjamin...so proud of him.  Samuel wasn't here this year, he's in Virginia with Grace and the kids, visiting her family.

Yesterday:  After swim class, I went to Aldi with Paul.  We got popsicles and some burger, tomatoes, arugula, bread, cheese (Cam is making mac and cheese for today's picnic).  Home...but not for long!  I went over to Ben and Ashley's house, and visited...and went for a swim in their pool with them, and Anya, Elise, Declan.  The pool water was 88 degrees, I could have stayed in there all the live-long day!

But, I had to get out and get dressed, and back into the hot hot day, to the Dollar General.  Twizzlers are a must for the Symphony night!  

Our power is out right now, it's pouring rain and thundering.  We might have an indoor picnic today.  Darius is smoking wings and brisket, we're having watermelon and the mac and cheese and hot dogs and a flag cake and cookies and and and...:)

Besides the picnics and fireworks and symphonies, the fourth is very special.  I am super proud to be an American.  I am thankful to be an American.  It's not perfect, but if every citizen started from a point of thankfulness, and stopped finger pointing and tearing each other down...united we stand, divided we fall.  I just love freedom, and there could certainly be more of it.  Leave us alone and let us live.  

Ah so now it's early evening, and we had our wonderful fourth of July celebration, Happy 250th, U.S.A.!
Nine of the kids were there today, some spouses, some grandchildren...
Kathryn's cake...mmm.
Margaret's cake
Baby Ellis with his daddy, letting him have the cookies...
Cousins:  Blythe and Jamie, they're besties.
Emily with Jon and Rosi's Emilia

We just got home...it's cooled off a little bit now, and that's good.  We made macaroni and cheese this morning for the cook out, it was so hot in here with the power off...it came back on before we left, so I could run the water and do all the dishes.  

We are watching soccer and just chilling...I hope you had a nice day, and if you are so lucky and blessed to live in this fine country, Happy 4th!

Thursday, July 2, 2026

ah, Thursday!

 This fine morning, as I slept so comfortably due to the a.c. unit in the window chugging away, I realized that I did not HAVE to get up, because there is no swim class on Thursday....it's the little things.  I love swim class, but also love not having to hurry.

I wish I could say I accomplished amazing things this morning, but alas, I have done very little.  It's warm in here, even with the mini split...77.  Not terrible, and much better than without it of course.  I cleaned out the roller edge of the vacuum cleaner, plugged it in, then decided to have another coffee and chat with Charlotte Claire and Camille.  :)

We are headed out today, even though it's 98 and sunny.  Char has to go to the uniform shop to be fitted for some nursing school scrubs and a lab coat.  My glasses are in, so another stop.  We are going to BJ's for some popsicles and a watermelon.  Hopefully that's it...but now there's talk of needing a few things from Walmart.  For the record, I could do an order pick up from BJ's but I don't trust them not to melt the popsicles.  The no sugar added Outshine bars are $9.29 for 36, and they need to be kept in the freezer for as long as possible.  

We are leaving in an hour, and I sort of dread it...the heat is suffocating, with the humidity.  The "real feel" is well over a hundred, as the dew point is 72 degrees, which means there is so much moisture in the air it is oppressive.  You feel like you can't breathe.  (yesterday was 96 degrees, but with the humidity so high, ugh)

(see why I don't want my popsicles out of the freezer for very long?)

Anyway.  I like the warm weather, but this is something else. 

Ah well.  You have a good day, and stay cool!


Wednesday, July 1, 2026

home and hot!

 After a few days in the camper, and spending most of the time outside, it's nice to be home.  I sleep well in the camper, I love it so much, but my own bed, you know, always nice to get back to.  

This fine morning, I went to the pool, and it was SO nice, the water cool and refreshing.  It's very hot and swampily humid here in central NY, if you spend any time out there you WILL sweat.  

After the pool, I stopped for gas, because the station in town has good prices and pumps the gas for you.  I like to tip the kid who pumps, but I don't always have cash.  Today I had a five, and gave it to him because it's so hot out.  I went to Dollar General after, just for mouth tape, and I got some dill pickle peanuts and a Prime low calorie drink.  

Home...I put my backpack down in the driveway, and pulled weeds and invasive mint from the front garden box.  The spearmint plants smell wonderful, and they are wonderful to have, if you want to make a watermelon slushy or just some tea, but they take over pretty quickly.  

By the time I got in the house, I wasn't cooled off from swimming anymore.  :). Then Paul brought out his treadmill/walking pad...he has the idea that if I keep getting on it, my gait will improve, my ankle will bend properly.  So once I rested up and cooled off, I got on it for five minutes, I do think it will help.  

My birthday is coming up, so I bought myself something: 

Aren't they just the cutest?  I love them.  I like the soft footbed better, but the prices on Birkenstocks have gone way up, these were in my size, and for these days, a good deal.  The three buckle style is comfortable for me, and I wear Birkenstocks pretty much from April to November, and of course on non-snowy days in December.  :). I want to wear them in for my trip to Norway!

Tomorrow is going to be even hotter, 98 and sunny AND humid, so I'm thinking of going to the store in a little while, to get some basics.  We're having a Fourth of July cook out at Kathryn and Darius' place, so I need to get a few things for that too.  

So off I go, you all have a good day!

Friday, June 26, 2026

oh it flies...

 Where does a lifetime go?  It's a vapor, just seems like I was too young forever, then so busy I my head was spinning, for years, then boom...life slowed down, and where did it all go?  Those years of youth and busyness, my body did what it was supposed to do, and I didn't pay it much attention.  Now it rather screams to be noticed.   

It wasn't too long ago I was knee deep in small children.  

Miss Charlotte Claire and Miss Camille Anaya...the final two, numbers 15 and 16...


Char, friend Amanda (the graduate!), Linnea, my granddaughters Elise (in front), Anya, and Camille...

Doesn't time fly?  

Here's little Blythe, Margaret and Adrian's little one...she had a cupcake with blue frosting.  

The rain stopped when the party started, and it was lovely.  Grilled burgers and hot dogs, watermelon, cantaloupe, kettle chips...mmm.  

This fine morning, I got up and went to the pool, which I never fail to appreciate.  There is a good group of old people going, and the class goes by fast.  I didn't come home after, I decided to drive to Target.  I didn't find much, but it was nice to wander around.  Baby clothes are too cute, I picked out an outfit for baby Samantha, then decided to get dresses for her big sisters Ruth and Maeve, then a shirt for Grant.  I can't do all the grandkids all the time, but sometimes I pick a family and get them something.  I also got a new shower curtain and a few hand towels that were 40% off, and that's it....then to Aldi for strawberries, a cauliflower crust pizza because it had a $2 off sticker on it, some fruit snacks, lemon juice, and some snacks.  

This fine evening we are towing our camper out to our church grounds, as there is a summer gathering there this week.  Paul and I will commute because of Sunny, dogs aren't allowed, which is understandable...1000 people, we don't need doggies too, although I would be a fan.  The girls will stay in the camper, and we will use it during the day for meals.  

Also I wanted to give a knee update, to all of you who had to bear with me through so much bellyaching, and I don't blame you if you skimmed over most of it, ha.  But:  I can finally say that I am super glad I had this knee replaced.  It was a long difficult recovery, and I am honestly a bit shocked it took so long to be able to walk again, but I can walk again.  It's still not A-Okay perfect, but I can get where I need to be, without knee pain (in the new knee anyway!).  So I am thankful!  

Although I hated going through the recovery phase, having difficulties makes you appreciate mobility so much.  

We are in a nice stretch of weather now...
Look at that!  Can't complain!  

Ah well.  I have to vacuum, and there are dishes to wash, and things to pack and get together for this busy weekend.  You all have a really good day!


Thursday, June 25, 2026

rain rain go away....

 We're going to a graduation party today!  The forecast looks wonderful, hope this rain dries up soon this afternoon though.

This is from Monday, a mama deer and her little one.  After they safely crossed the road, the mama trotted, then stopped to make sure little hopper was still bounding behind her.
Ruth Eleanor...
Maeve 
Jonathan, Benjamin and Samuel, three of my five boys...
Sometimes Jamison comes over for a visit, and sometimes Sunny just doesn't eat her food.  James gets her to eat, one piece at a time.

It is very darling.

This fine rainy day, I went with Kathryn on an outing...I waited in the car with baby Ellis because he fell asleep.  Well, he woke up, so I got out and opened his door, took him out of his carseat, then tried to get back in the passenger seat of Kathryn's huge-0 SUV..I couldn't figure out if it was better to set him on the seat, then sit next to him, pick him up, then scootch in...but I decided just to hold him and climb in, and somehow I did it.  :)

We went to Costco, with her four kids, and Char and Cam.  What kind of calculator do they have that turns a moderately filled cart into over two hundred dollars?  Is it that the carts are so big?  Or the packages?  One Costco rotisserie chicken, grapes, raspberries, blueberries, croissants, heavy cream, iced coffee, seltzer, kielbasa, cauliflower rice, a big huge bag of chips, chocolate covered almonds...I don't know.  Each item I put in the cart seems like a decent deal (except for the chocolate covered almonds, no way now how are they even remotely necessary, but they are SO good!)

Anyway.  We sat with the kids and had the hot dogs and pizza and drinks, and people watched.  

Home....ahh, home.  We are leaving soon for a graduation party for the girls' friend Amanda!  

It is time to get up and get moving...have a good day!


Tuesday, June 23, 2026

did you ever?

 Write a draft and re read it several times and just decide not to publish it?

Go to the DMV, the post office, and the eye doctor all in one day?  

Wish you could just sit in your comfy chair sipping your coffee instead of slugging it down so you could go to the DMV, the post office, and the eye doctor?

Ah well.  Life is good.  Yesterday I went to the pool, and when I got out, I had to message a guy about a washing machine, for a rental, and when I looked at my phone, Grace was telling me she was at my house with the girls while Grant was at his farming co-op.  It was so nice, on a rainy day, to have company!  

Paul picked up the washing machine himself, then delivered it later and set it up while I made dinner for Char and Cam.  (chicken breast...we freeze a lot in baggies, I've found putting two baggies of it in the iron frying pan with a lid loosely set on top defrosts it quickly, then adding sesame oil as the liquid dissipates and it thaws, you can brown it up nicely and it tastes good.  I made Asian chicken, I suppose...I added frozen and powdered ginger, salt and pepper, butter, orange marmalade, a spoonful of brown sugar.  The chicken had been frozen in lime juice so it already had a tangy flavor.  I stir fried frozen Asian veggies from Aldi with broccoli florets, and some raw cabbage.  Added all together, and it was very good)

So my walking is getting better but my hip is really bothering me.  I think it's my gait, and I am trying to fix it.   The hip stuff did show up here and there before the knee surgery, but now it clicks every time I get up, and aches in the night.  Getting older is full of perks, but hey, we're getting older, and that in itself is a gift and privilege.  

I have to leave here now, and head out and about, all by my lonesome...it's on my radar to go to Aldi and BJ's too, as long as I'm in the small city.  I'll be tired later!  You all have a good day!