summer 2011

summer 2011

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012
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Thursday, January 30, 2025

the good, the bad, and the ugly, aka home improvement...

But first, some congratulations are in order for my second oldest daughter Abigail,  she is engaged!

You never know when Mr. Right will come along, here she is with Derrick.  Aren't they cute?

The bad is truly sad, but not my story to tell, so allow me to be vague...we lost a tiny little unborn grandchild, 15 weeks.  Very sad for all of us, especially the parents.  I don't understand why these things happen, but I do know that Jesus learned obedience through what He suffered (Heb 5:8).  We also learn mercy, and to be thankful for our children.  

It's been a busy few days, had six grandchildren here all day on Tuesday, then three of them stayed for two days.  We did have fun, but oh ho is Grandma tired today!  You'd think I would have stayed home, but nope, Miss Cam and I had plans.  We had spackled up spots in the kitchen yesterday, moved furniture away from the walls, took all the mirrors and pictures and wall hangings down.  This fine morning, we sanded and vacuumed and wiped things down.  She opened up the paint, stirred it, and started rolling while I used the small brush and cut in.  Well, she did not like the foam thingy on the roller.  At all.  She said it should glide right on, and it wasn't.  She wanted a new roller cover, if possible.  I had just changed into my lovely floral painting shorts, and the green shirt with stains on it.  We're five miles from the hardware store and the car was covered in snow, so we decided that instead of making two trips out, as we were out of quite a few things, we would wrap up the paint and go to Costco...and Trader Joe's....and the hardware store.  

Sonja went with us too.  Costco:  yogurt, heavy cream, croissants ($5.99 for a dozen, Camille loves them), a rotisserie chicken, cauliflower rice, protein bars, a big package of burger, and whatever else adds up to over two hundred dollars.  Thankfully I spent considerably less in Trader Joe's.  Some dye free candy, seltzer (black cherry vanilla, yum!), the milk chocolate peanut butter cups which should be illegal they are so good, and shh, four bags of popcorn.  

The hardware store for two new tiny edging brushes and a new roller cover, then home....ahh, home.  But no time to put the feet up, no sir, put away those groceries and start painting!  
Miss Cam says she likes the ladder.  She is a very happy co-worker, cheerful and optimistic.  
Yeah, shambles.  This shows the blue still around the cabinets....and the cooler, doesn't everyone have a cooler in their kitchen?  It was actually out on the deck right outside the door, with drinks in it, but when it got so freezing, they would all explode so we dragged it in, and there it is...
Naked windows, and the line on the wall where the bench hits...we're going to add some furniture sticker things on the back edge of it to try to prevent it.
Curtains have been washed...
You can see the new color on the left, still blue around the cabinets...wish we could replace the counters but it's not in the budget or in the plans...

So, we're almost halfway done...it will need another coat...be glad to finish it up!  You all have a good day, I'm tired and now I'm cold, since I was so busy and now I'm relaxing...:)




8 comments:

Mari said...

You should relax! That was a very busy day. It's looking so good though!
Congratulations to Abigail. And now you have another wedding to work on. :)
I'm so sorry about the loss of the grandbaby. My sister lost twins at 16 weeks and I remember how very hard that was. Praying for all of you as you go through this.

An American Housewife said...

I'm sorry for their loss of the baby and I'm sorry for your loss too Grandma.

Terri D said...

Congrats to the engaged couple!! Weddings are just the best kind of celebration! My niece had a miscarriage just before Christmas at 11 weeks. Yes, it is so very sad. The kitchen re-do is looking good. Keep us posted!! xo

Anonymous said...

Congratulations to Abigail! So sorry to hear about your loss, that is so hard, especially when one is past the 12 week mark. Sigh. Hugs to all
Valerie

Anonymous said...

Della I’m so sorry to read about the miscarriage. It’s so sad for you all. Big hugs from me to you 🥰🥰

Marilyn from Canada 🇨🇦

16 blessings'mom said...

It is so hard to lose a baby. These days they find out so early, too, so they have that "we're having a baby" mindset for a bit longer, than back in the day. It's super sad though. Another wedding too, oh dear, so exciting, she's getting married in May! Two daughters getting married in May!

16 blessings'mom said...

Thank you all for your kind words and hugs, it is too sad. Isn't it exciting about Abigail though? You just never know...God is good.

Joybells said...

Oh Della, I'm so sorry about the baby. ❤️ May the parents be comforted and find peace in God's plan. ❤️ And yaaaay for Abigail!! She looks radiant! And Derrick looks like he just got the catch of his life. 😄 So, so lovely. It is not snowy here, just barely slushy enough to get the kids' hopes up, but school hasn't canceled yet! We keep on hoping!

Love from Joy