summer 2011

summer 2011

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012

Paul and I, all 16 kids and Ashley, Benjamin's wife...Christmas 2012
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Tuesday, March 10, 2026

I'm baaaack!

 Oh dear, can I just say it was fantastic?  I can't believe I am not on the other side of the Trip to Norway.  It went so well, but not without a bit of suffering, but that is life.  

We drove to Newark, New Jersey, to the airport.  It takes almost five hours.  We stopped at a rest area after about three hours, and I could barely walk because of sitting for too long, but I managed with Margaret's patient help.  We stopped again to get some Chik-Fil-A to bring to the airport and eat, and an Americano from Starbucks.  

We parked in a garage at the airport, quite a ways from the elevator up to the train, so into the wheelchair I went, much to my mortal embarrassment.  We found out the hard way that if you just try to go fast to make it over a bump, it will tip forward.  There were shrieks of laughter in that parking garage, and I was fine, but oh dear.  You can't believe how many bumps there are that make it almost impossible to be in a wheelchair. (I also opted not to bring the footrest things, thinking they would just be more to carry, ec., so I had to have my legs out straight the whole time...good exercise, but not so comfy, and I felt so vulnerable that I would hit my leg against something or someone would ram into me, which did happen in the train...a guy with a huge baggage cart rammed the chair, and my leg lurched forward and wrenched...it hurt for a long time!) (on the way home)

We made it up to the train without incident, then to the ticket counter of Scandinavian Airlines.  We had to check the chair, and use one of theirs', which required a lady to push me.  Margaret came through with me, and this lady just went around the lines!  I had to get out of the chair to walk through the screening, and a very nice lady assisted me.  I told her I was sorry about the way the TSA employees aren't getting paid (politics!  so wrong!), and she was so sweet.  I was able to walk around a bit, but the lady came back with the chair and pushed me to the plane for pre-boarding, which was actually nice...because I had to walk over halfway down that airplane to get to my seat, and it was nice not to be bumped or jostled.

So, during the flight, I got up frequently, so no sleep for me.  I was in an aisle seat, and when it was time to hobble down to the bathroom, of course the turbulence started up.  Not too bad, but I couldn't just hold on to the seats with my free hand because people were leaning back, and they had tv screens, ect...so the big tall flight attendant came along, he took my free hand, and walked backwards all the way down, I was SO embarrassed.  All the rest of the times, I made sure one of my girls helped me.

We got onto the bus, and two hours later we were there!  I was thankful we had that chair, because it was a haul to our apartment/suite.  

I saw so many friends!  The first night, Miss Kaia was awake for like three hours in the night, so we were tired the next day.  But we still stayed up until after three...every night!  We had some laughs, laughed so hard I couldn't breathe, so hard my stomach hurt.  


Evelyn and Margaret and I in the parking garage...we were going up to the sports arena, where there is an ice rink, volleyball courts, ect., as well as ice cream and those yummy Norwegian Polska, hot dogs.  

Miss Kaia, world traveler...she did really well, better on the way home than the way there.
This is almost too personal to post...this is Oscar's mom meeting baby K for the very first time, I did cry.  
Margaret and I at Paint and Sip...
Our friend Joannie in the glasses (she stayed with us, and was SO much fun!), Evelyn, Emily, then on the other side, me, Margaret, Sonja...
Chillin...
Out to dinner in Oslo with this group of ladies...
In the airport on the way home...shh, I brought home a LOT of chocolate...:)
These were waiting for me when I got home...happy anniversary to Paul and I, 42 years of bliss!

I slept so well last night.  My feet were a bit swollen from the traveling, but much better this morning.  My walking is so-so, a bit wobbly, but it felt great to get on that exercise bike.  I got my suitcase unpacked and my clothes washed, mostly put away, and I vacuumed some of the house.  I went outside and enjoyed some nice weather, but the day flew by.  

The trip was made doable by my daughters being so good to me, and pushing me the distances in that wheelchair.  On the bus on the way to the hotel at the Oslo airport, I had on a jean skirt, and must have hit my leg with the poky thing on my cane, that helps with ice and snow.  The bus ride was two hours, so when I stood up and had to walk and then down the steep bus steps, I was struggling, then Emily noticed my leg, I hadn't even felt it!  There was a gash on my shin, with two big streaks of blood running down and soaking into my sneaker lace and sock.  It looked worse than it is!  

(I made sure to wash it up with soap and water when we got to the hotel, removed the sneaker lace and washed that as well.)

It started hurting later, but it seems to be okay.   

We had a nice dinner in the hotel restaurant, sang happy birthday to Joannie, and really had a nice time.  

The trip home was uneventful, but also full of little events: the trips all the way to the back to use the bathroom on the plane, and me getting patted down going through Norwegian security...i he said to stay in the chair, but he had to pat me down.  great.  my favorite.  I traveled in a dress with leggings, he asked if he could lift up my dress, and I said, "No, no you can't."  So, he didn't.  I mean, I could have stood up so he could check out the chair, but instead he put his hands under me and felt all around the chair seat, my goodness, so invasive, but he was polite and respectful, but still.  The other security guy took my cane and sent it through the scanner....I didn't know I never got it back, until Evelyn happened to go through the same line, and found it lying there...!  

So I'm home now, and hobbling around, happy to be home, wishing I could walk better, trying to be patient and trust the process, but mostly extremely thankful for the trip I had, for the hope that I had ignited in my heart from the meetings we went to, God is good.  

So you all have a really good night!


8 comments:

Far Side of Fifty said...

Good to hear that you are back home safe and sound and you had a good trip!

Mari said...

Welcome home! I'm glad everything went as well as it did and you had lots of laughs and fun. I would have resisted the wheelchair too, but it's good you used it - and good you didn't get thrown out! :)
Happy Anniversary!

Jean said...

I enjoyed reading about your trip! I'm curious what your connection is to folks in Norway? Our oldest daughter has lived in Sweden since she got married in 1991. In 2001 I took a trip to see them and brought our granddaughter Destiny (age 19 months) with me (for reasons I won't go into here.) The biggest trip of my lifetime!

Also, I'm sorry I don't know what happened to your knee. I assume you had surgery? I'm at the age where all my friends are getting knee replacements!

Cindy said...

Sounds like an incredible adventure! So glad you were able to go!

Anonymous said...

Welcome back! It's sounds like you had a good trip overall! Happy anniversary!!
Valerie

Terri D said...

Welcome home!! I loved the photos you shared and am so happy you got to travel and made it there and through both flights!! Happy Anniversary!! xo

Kim Carberry said...

Welcome back!!!
It sounds an interesting time in the wheelchair at the airport! All in all it sounds a good journey and a wonderful trip.
Happy anniversary to you and Paul!

Anonymous said...

I think it's so great you got out there and traveled even when you're not 100% with your knee. Very impressive. I imagine your girls loved all the memories you made with them.